Movie Title: SIR(2018)
Directed by : Rohena Gera
Cast : Tillotama Shome, Vivek Gomber
No it's not a typical romance movie.
At first, when the movie starts, I thought it was one of those typical love stories between a rich man and a poor woman. But by the end, the film proved me wrong. It shows how our economic situations govern our romantic choices—how love, even when genuine, is not always free from the grip of class and society. The ending of the movie gives us a while new way to look at it.
The Two different worlds
The story begins with Ratna, a young widow from a small village in Maharashtra, striving to become self-sufficient and support her family, especially her younger sister. She moves to Mumbai and takes a job as a maid for a wealthy family.
The male protagonist, Ashwin, is an aspiring writer who has returned from the US after abandoning his dreams to support his father's architectural business. His own engagement has recently broken off. Both Ratna andAshwin are lonely in different ways, but they come from two entirely different worlds—one of privilege and the other of struggle.
A Quiet Bond
As the movie progresses, so does the bond between Ratna and Ashwin—growing beyond the traditional master-servant relationship. Their connection is marked by mutual respect, dignity, and emotional maturity. There’s a quiet presence of consent and calmness in their interactions. They stand by each other during emotional lows, quietly filling the gaps in each other’s lives, without ever violating boundaries.
The barriers for love
The calm, heartfelt confession of love by Ashwin—and Ratna’s equally honest admission of the barriers between them—brings out a painful truth. The barriers of class, community, and occupation aren’t just social constructs; they deeply shape personal decisions. Ratna’s rejection doesn’t stem from a lack of love, but from a lived understanding of how the world works. It’s a bittersweet reminder that sometimes love is not enough in a society still governed by invisible walls.
The Ending - A Quiet Revolution
The ending doesn’t confirm whether they get together romantically. But Ratna calling "Ashwin" by his name is full of promise. It opens a door. It says, Now, I can come to you not as your servant, but as myself.
It’s a small moment, but it represents a huge inner transformation. That one word speaks of love, self-respect, and the courage to defy societal norms—not through rebellion, but through quiet, deliberate choice.
Performance, direction and cinematography
The performances are quietly powerful—Tillotama Shome brings depth and dignity to Ratna, while Vivek Gomber plays Ashwin with restrained vulnerability. Rohena Gera’s direction is subtle and empathetic, letting emotions unfold through silences and small gestures. The cinematography complements this tone, using soft lighting and confined spaces to reflect the characters’ emotional worlds.
Personal statement: I am particularly drawn towards movie's ending which signifies an elegant statement of emotional equality. It is not a just a romantic gesture it is a political and personal one. It's about a woman owning her space, her voice, and finally, her right to love on her own terms.
bohot vadiyaa... dekh ke ataa hoon movie!!
ReplyDeleteIndeed a genuine and thoughtful review.
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